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Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Chasing Happy?

You don't chase happiness down like a dog, leash it and squeeze the life out of it. You'll choke it to death. Happiness doesn't hang out long with the clingy types. 

It isn't in a person, a job, a place or a situation.

Is not "right around the corner."

You just walk around, doing your thing, the best you can. You accept yourself and others with compassion. 

You stop chasing shit around thinking it's going to be the thing that makes everything alright. If you can't do that for yourself, no relationship, place or situation is going to make it happen.

It's funny. If you don't chase it, happy just drops in to say hello all the time.

In a song 
In a warm greeting from someone dear
In a job well done
In the breeze coming in the window 
In a loved ones smile
When a coworker helps out
Laughing 
Walking through the green places
Watching a favorite show 
On a girls day out 
In a cool unexpected surprise 
When people are silly and are OK with others being silly, too
When you feel grateful to have "found your tribe"
Talking with mom and being so glad she is here
Coloring
Working on goals, and taking steps!
Going to class with my witches
Clearing space
Friends
Talking endlessly about music 
Dinner with the family every night 

It's just unexpected. I stopped chasing it and discovered it was with me all along.

I'm not smart. I learned this because I was an eejit, always looking for happy to be around the next bend.

It's not here 24/7. That's not life, but it's part of the flow and it's always coming around again. And I'm always surprised and grateful when it does. 

Peace, babies.


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